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Proverbs 3:5-6


  • Matthew Dodd
  • Weekend Messages
  • May 26, 2019

It’s easy to feel jaded by life. Who should we trust? What does real trust look like? We are going to look at two verses from Proverbs 3 which will answer these fundamental questions.

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Proverbs 3:5-6


ILLUS – Infomercials

1.In so many ways, life can feel like purchasing a product from an infomercial.

2.You take the plunge thinking it will be different this time, because this time it’s going to work! It’s worth the money… only to get burned.

3.You feel played. You vow to never fall for that again, until you see the next infomercial!

4.It’s easy to feel jaded by life.

5.Who should we trust? What does real trust look like?

6.Today, we are going to look at two verses from Proverbs 3 which will answer these fundamental questions.

Proverbs 3:5-6


1.Proverbs 3:1-12 is a wonderful passage filled with wisdom, principles, and promises for living a godly life.

2.Proverbs 3:5-6 are the foundation for the entire passage. Everything hinges upon the nuggets of wisdom found here.

Transition – In these two verses we discover “Who” to trust, “How” to trust, and the “Promise” given to those who apply these words of wisdom. First question, “Who to trust?”

I. Trust the Lord (5)


A.With all of your heart

1.There are different levels of trust.

a.Level 1 – “I trust you as far as I can throw you!”

b.Level 2 – “Flipping the Switch”

c.Level 3 – “The Stretch”

d.Level 4 – “At Rest”

2.The word for trust means “to lay helpless, facedown, at the mercy of another”.

a.It’s like a soldier before a victorious general

b.Or a servant waiting for a master’s command

3.In Proverbs 3:5, trust is a picture of…

a.Allegiance and Submission

b.Confidence and Conviction

c.Expectation and Hope

d.Faith and Reliance

4.In Proverbs 3:5, trust is a wholehearted commitment.

a.Trust is a choice.

b.“All your heart” means with “one’s mind, emotions, and will”.

APPL – This level of trust declares, “I will trust the Lord…” 

  • To meet all of my needs

Philippians 4:19, And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

  • When I’m afraid of life’s battles

Psalm 56:3-4, When I am afraid, I will put my trust in You.
In God, whose word I praise, in God I have put my trust; I shall not be afraid. What can mere man do to me?

  • When I’m afflicted, overwhelmed, or persecuted

2 Corinthians 4:7-9, But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the surpassing greatness of the power may be of God and not from ourselves; we are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not despairing; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.

  • When my health is failing

Psalms 73:25-26, Whom have I in heaven but You? And besides You, I desire nothing on earth. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

ILLUS – My grandma’s example before she passed away

c.God wants our whole heart because anything less is half-hearted. Half-hearted devotion leaves the door opens for folly.

B.Don’t lean on unreliable substitutes

ILLUS – Texting my wife, “I love you!”

1.This includes “leaning” on your own “understanding”.

a.The word for lean is like the word trust.

b.Lean means to “rely on someone or something for help or protection.”

c.Understanding refers to human understanding which operates in ignorance because it lacks God’s counsel.

d.Therefore, “to lean on your own understanding” is to be “wise in your own eyes”.

e.Scripture clearly warns against being a “wise guy”.

Proverbs 3:7, Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil.

Proverbs 14:12, There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.

2.What are the signs of being a “wise guy”?

a.Pride and haughtiness

b.Unteachable heart

ILLUS – Roller rink disaster!

Proverbs 16:18, Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before stumbling.

3.Why is humility so important?

a.Because we have no reason to boast.

1 Corinthians 4:7, For who regards you as superior? And what do you have that you did not receive? But if you did receive it, why do you boast as if you had not received it? 

ILLUS – Alex Haley, the author of Roots, has a picture in his office, showing a turtle sitting atop a fence.

b.Because God resists the proud.

James 4:6, 10, God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble. Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you.

4.Please note that the trust which pleases the Lord is not a blind faith!

a.It’s a trust that looks at the facts and declares, “God exists, and I am not God”.

Hebrews 11:6, And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him. 

b.It’s a trust that looks at the character of God and declares, “God is worthy of my trust.”

Numbers 23:19, God is not a man, that He should lie, nor a son of man, that He should repent; has He said, and will He not do it? Or has He spoken, and will He not make it good?

c.It’s a trust that declares, “Where God is, is where I call home”.

Psalm 84:1-4, How lovely are Your dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! My soul longed and even yearned for the courts of the Lord; my heart and my flesh sing for joy to the living God. The bird also has found a house, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may lay her young, even Your altars, O Lord of hosts, my King and my God. How blessed are those who dwell in Your house! They are ever praising You.

II.Trust the Lord All Your Days (6)


A.In all your ways acknowledge Him

1. This is not a mere nodding of the head.

2.We must see God in life’s events. David said, “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want”.

3.Seek God each day through prayer.

a.Surrender your will.

Luke 9:23, If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.

b.Seek the Lord’s will through prayer.

Romans 12:1-2, I urge you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.

3.Why is Trust/Faith so important to God?

a.Relationships are built on trust.

ILLUS – Business, Friendships, Marriage

b.Without trust relationships fall apart.

ILLUS – Satan’s deception/temptation of Eve and Adam

Genesis 3:4-5, And the serpent said to the woman, ‘You surely shall not die! For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.’

APPL – Satan has been casting doubts on the character of God ever since the Fall in the Garden of Eden.

  • Satan knew if he could get the lie to stick, mankind’s relationship with God would be ruined on multiple levels.
  • Mankind has been looking for someone or something other than God to trust ever since.
  • But we must remember “Who” we are talking about.
  • The LORD, Yahweh, is holy, righteous, just, loving, gracious, faithful and true!

c.God loves you and is committed to the best for your life.

Jeremiah 29:11-14, ‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart. I will be found by you,’ declares the Lord…

B.The Lord will make your path straight

1.“He will make your paths straight”.

a.This is a wonderful promise.

b.Yet it is also a conditional promise based on trust.

  • 2.What does this promise mean?

a.God has your best interests at the center of His heart. He wants to bless your life.

b.God knows the best way to accomplish His purpose for your life.

c.All of His power is available to accomplish the plan He has for your life.

d.It may not be “easy street”, but it’s the best way to get you to the best goal.

e.And the Lord will get you to the goal!

f.Your life will be successful as God defines success.

APPL – God is committed to finish what He started in you.

Philippians 1:6, For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.


APPL – Where do you truly place your trust? If not the Lord, why? If you say, “I trust God”; are you…

  • Level 2 – Flipping the Switch?
  • Level 3 – The Stretch?
  • Level 4 – At Rest?

Joshua 24:15, But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. 

Proverbs 3:5-6 New American Standard Bible (NASB)
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight.


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