The Song above All Songs
Song of Solomon 1-8
February 22-23, 2025
Many versions of your Bibles, this was called the Song of Solomon, but in the Hebrew Bible and many English it's called the Song of Songs, and both are correct because it's written by Solomon, and it is the Song of Songs. In other words, it is the best of all of the songs that Solomon wrote. He wrote 1,005 songs. He wrote the poems, the words, and gave them to the choirmaster to write, to be sung. Music and such was such a very important part of the life of Israel in the days of David and Solomon, in particular.
Solomon wrote 1,005 songs, and this one right here is the best of the best. See, when you put two words together like that, it's emphatic. The Song of Songs, the best of the best, is like Holy of Holies that expresses the highest degree of holy in the throne room of our God there. It's a beautiful expression, and this song stood above them all. The favorite, everyone loved this one because it touches the greatest theme, love. Specifically, the love between a husband and his wife, the wife and her husband.
It's just a delightful, the wonderful, romantic, beautiful, wonderful story of love, and everybody loves because we're made to love. God made us that way. God is love, and he wrote that upon our soul. Interestingly, this book is read every year. At the beginning of the Passover feast, they would read the story of the Passover, and they would read this Song of Songs because it expresses the greatness of love. They would say, "The greatness of love between God and Israel is seen in the book." It's an allegory of that kind of love. Interestingly also, that many people skip over this book.
Many people avoid this book. The Jews held it in very high esteem. They held it very, very high. In fact, one of the rabbis, Rabbi Aqiba, Jewish commentator, said of this book, "In the entire history of the world, from its beginning to this very day, no day outshines that day in which this book was given to Israel. All Scriptures indeed are holy, but the Song of Songs is the Holy of Holies." That's how they hold this book in high esteem. As I said, Jewish scholars would see this allegory.
Now, an allegory, if you're not familiar, is a story, a poem, or whatever, written with a hidden, deeper meaning into it. A story with a deeper meaning. For example, some of you read Pilgrim's Progress.
That's an allegory of a spiritual life journey. There are some Christian teachers who would say, yes, it is an allegory, but it's an allegory of Jesus and the church. That's the hidden meaning behind it. It would therefore be prophetic because the church did not exist in those days. Other teachers, and this is where I land, see this book as typology.
In other words, that perspective sees the Song of Solomon as a type, a symbol, an analogy of the relationship between Jesus, the bridegroom, and the church as the bride of Christ. As typology, as symbolism, it's meaning to convey that the relationship between Jesus and the church is meant to be gloriously beautiful. This is such a book of a depth of love, that it's meant to convey that the depth of love, gloriously beautiful. God wants you to know how much he loves you. I tell you, if people only knew how much that God loved them, it would change everything in their lives.
People only knew. It's meant to be gloriously beautiful, intimate, joyously fulfilling to the soul. In fact, the Apostle Paul wrote similarly in Ephesians 5. Many of you know, in Ephesians 5, the verses that say, "Husbands should love your wives as Christ loved the church, gave himself up for her." Then later in the same chapter, referring to marriage, he says, "For this reason, a man shall leave his father and his mother, shall cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."
Now, this mystery is great, but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church. It's a beautiful symbolism of the depth of the love that God wants the church to understand. Oh, how he loves you. Now, this poetic song, Hebrew poem, is also quite explicit in describing that romance between the husband and the bride in the book, which is why ancient rabbis used to teach that Jewish young men, younger than 30, were not allowed to read this book. They were afraid of lighting a man's passions on fire.
It is pretty explicit. Therefore, we're going to now check ID because we want to make sure that you're ready to receive this book. It is a great book of symbolism, but I submit that it's also practical. What I mean by that is that husbands could learn something from the Song of Solomon. Well, wives could too. Husbands and wives could learn a lot from the Song of Solomon about the significance of giving expression to love. We were meant to love. God wrote that upon our soul. Love needs to give expression.
I remember reading this story of a wife who said to her husband, "It would mean a lot if you said you loved me." The husband replied, "I told you I loved you on the day we were married, and if I changed my mind I'll let you know." It's men like that who need to read the Song of Solomon and take notes because love needs expression. Now, at the same time, it's important to set the book in the context of the time and culture of the days of Solomon, because he uses expressions of love poetically beautiful, but appropriate for their day.
If we use some of those expressions today, let's just say they would have a very different reaction if you wrote those kinds of expressions on your Valentine's card. Would you like some examples? For example, in 1:9, the groom says, "To me, my darling, you are like--" [laughter] I'll get there. "To me, my darling, you are like my mare, my horse, you are like my filly, my mare among the chariots of Pharaoh." We like animals on cards, but I don't think she's going to appreciate the comparison, you know what I'm saying?
Later, the bride says, "Oh, my beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag." Well, if she's going to be a mare, then at least he should be a stag, right? Then later, the bridegroom says, "Your hair is like a flock of goats." It doesn't have the same response. Later in chapter 7, the bride groom says, "Your belly is like a heap of wheat." Don't underline that in your Bible and don't put that in the Valentine's card. Then later in chapter 7, "Your neck is like a tower of ivory. Your eyes are like the pools of Heshbon. Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon." Don't write that down in your card, whatever you do.
Now, Solomon, he wrote this song to be performed. You might think of it as an opera. An opera is a story in a song, quite a production, and that was the idea, it was meant to be sung, performed. There's a plot, there's suspense, there's love, there's romance, there's actors on the stage. The husband would be playing the part of Solomon. Solomon is a husband in the story. The wife, then, is a peasant, which is interesting. The king falls in love with the peasant, Shulamite woman, who is strikingly beautiful, and charming with all her delights. Then there's also a chorus of singers.
Now, you might think of them in the corner on risers the choir maybe. They interpose, they respond to the bride or the groom at various different times in the story. Then there's the audience. Particularly they address the women in the audience as the daughters of Jerusalem. For example, at one point she says and she refers to the women in the audience, "This is my beloved. This is my friend or daughters of Jerusalem." Beautiful. It's lovely, intimate, descriptive, meaning to convey a beautiful relationship between Jesus and the church.
Let's read. We're not going to read all of it. We did that Wednesday, but I want to read some of it. Let's start at Song of Solomon 1:1, the song of dongs, which is Solomons. "May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth." All right. Now, I think it's important to set this in its context. Here they're married, they're celebrating their relationship. Then later in the story, they look back on their courtship, they look back on their wedding and all of that, but they begin here by celebrating that they are married and in relationship.
"Kiss me with the kisses of his mouth. For your love is better than wine." The bride id speaking here. "Your oils have a pleasing fragrance and your name is like purified oil." I love that. Your name is so wonderful and it's like purified oil. It's so wondrous. Of course, again, it speaks of the fact that Jesus, who is greater than Solomon, who is the king of all kings and lord of all lords, has a name which stands above all other names. Lay out the name of Jesus, every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.
What a great declaration. Your name is like purified oil. No wonder the maidens love you. "Draw me after you-- Verse 4-- let us run together for the king has brought me into his chamber." Then the chorus, the choir jumps in. "We will rejoice in you and be glad, we will extol your love more than wine, rightly do they love you." All right. Then move down to verse 15. The groom now speaks, "How beautiful you are, my darling. How beautiful you are. Your eyes are like doves."
The bride responds. "Oh, how handsome you are my beloved and, oh, how so pleasant. Indeed, our couch is luxuriant. The beams of our houses, our cedars, our rafters, our cypresses." Chapter 2 she continues, "I am the rose of Sharon, the lily of the valleys." He responds, "Like a lily among the thorns so is my darling among the maidens. Like you stand beautiful above them all." Then the bride responds again in Chapter 2:3, "Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest so is my beloved among the young men."
An apple tree is not commonly found in the forest, but if you find an apple tree in the forest, what a delight it would be. The apples would refresh. The shade would protect. That's her point. Verse 3 continues, "And in his shade, I took great delight and sat down. His fruit was sweet to my taste." Then verse 4 is perhaps the most famous of all the verses in the whole book, "He has brought me to his banquet hall." Some say, "He's brought me to his banqueting table and his banner over me is love."
I. As Christ Loved the Church
You'll recognize that verse. "Sustain me with raisin cakes, refresh me with apples because I am lovesick." Now, we won't look at other verses, but we want to start with that and understand that, again, it pictures for us a depth of love as Christ loved the church. Meant to convey beautiful. The imagery of that. Interestingly, by the way, it was not an uncommon thought that God would be considered like a husband. It was an Old Testament Jewish thought as well.
For example, in Hosea 2:19 where he says, "God says to Israel, 'I will betroth you to me forever. I will betroth you to me in righteousness, in justice, in lovingkindness and in compassion. I will betroth you to me in faithfulness, and then you will know the Lord.'" He's expressing that I will pursue you. It's a beautiful thought that God is the one who pursues. God is the one who pours forth love.
Interestingly, similarly seen in Jeremiah 31. This is actually prophetic here. He says, "Behold days are coming, declares the Lord, when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah, not like the covenant which I made with their Fathers in the day I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt." Now remember, they saw that God taking them by the hand, leading them out of Egypt was the beginning of the expression of God's love for them.
He says, "I will make a new covenant, not like the old covenant, the first covenant I made with their Fathers on the day I took them by their hand to lead them out of Egypt. My covenant, which they broke, even though I was a husband to them," declares the Lord. Here's this beautiful picture. "I husbanded them. I took them by the hand. I saved them out of their oppression. I saved them out of their slavery. I brought them into a wondrous land, but they rejected, they broke my covenant."
It's fascinating because it speaks of that covenant as a husband. He promises to make a new covenant with the house of Israel, a covenant initiated by the blood of the Messiah and King, the blood of Jesus for the forgiveness of sin. He says, "And this one, I will write it upon your heart that you would fall in love, that there would be this depth of love aspect to it." What's interesting is that they broke the covenant, which he says, but then they rejected the new covenant, which Jesus came to offer.
They rejected Jesus as Messiah and King, but what's amazing, though they broke the first and rejected the second, God does not give up on them. "At the end of the age when Jesus sets foot on the Mount of Olives and enters into Jerusalem, he will present himself as the Messiah and the King of Israel, and he will pour out upon them the spirit of grace and supplication such that all Israel will be saved under the blood and the banner of Jesus Christ." God is not done with Israel. Amen.
This is important because when you see what's happening in the world today in the Middle East and the nations of the world regarding it, it is a critical understanding that God is not done with Israel and that those who bless Israel will still be blessed today. It's true then, and it's true today. Amen. Receive a little praise. Exactly right. [applause] This prophecy, he says, "I will make a new covenant." It's a prophecy of this covenant which is founded in love. It speaks of the nature of the relationship of Christ to the church.
Notice Chapter 2:4, "He brought me to his banqueting table and his banner over me is love." That's the most famous verse. In fact, oh, I remember when I was young, we used to sing a song in the church. Some of you will remember it. It was a beautiful simple song, but it conveyed this in a very deep meaning. Many of you will remember it.
A. I’m my beloved’s and He is mine
I am my beloved’s and he is mine--
His banner over me is love
You're just like, "Oh, it's a delightful song." You're dwelling on this wondrous point. I am my beloveds, he's mine. It speaks of this. It's meant to be love. That is the center of this. It symbolizes that depth of love. When Jesus died on the cross, he was compelled by love. In fact, Romans 5:8 says, "God demonstrated the greatness of his love in that Christ died for us when we were still sinners." That's amazing. It's one of the most amazing verses I think that expresses the gospel so powerfully.
God demonstrated the greatness of that love because Christ died for you when you were still a sinner. That's how much he loved you. Now see this is so important because-- and I've said this before, but so many people have it wrong when it comes to the understanding of God's perspective on sinners. See, many people believe that because God is holy and righteous, which he certainly is, that he is offended at sinners. When he looks at sinners, he takes the attitude be gone. I have nothing to do with thee. You have sinned. You have offended me.
Many people believe that God is angry at them, pushing them away because he's holy and righteous and they're sinners, but you could not be any farther from the truth. It is the exact opposite of the truth. Jesus said, "I have come to seek and to save that which was lost." It's like God is saying to his Son, "Go and find sinners and bring them home. Reconcile them to God the Father." It's the beautiful understanding that God is the one who is pursuing. God is the one who's knocking on the door of your heart.
"Anyone who would hear my voice and open the door, I will come in. I will sup with him." There's that supper. "I will have relationship with him, but you've got to open the door. You open the door of your heart, and it will open the glorious love that God-- you will see it then. Oh, how God loved me through his Son, Jesus Christ. Notice also Hebrews 12:2. "Fix your eyes on Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."
What was that joy set before him that compelled Jesus to endure the cross and despise the shame? It was the joy of knowing that he would lead many sinners to glory. He was thinking of you. He was thinking of me for the joy set before him. What a glorious understanding that he would lead many sinners to glory. That they would understand the depths of indescribable joy. He didn't die only to forgive your sin. That's just awesome. He died that you would enter into a relationship and understand the depths of how much he loved you. If you could only know God loved you so much.
B. “His banner over me is love”
If you could only know how much it would change your life. Then we love that expression back in Song of Solomon 2:4, "He brought me to his banqueting table and his banner over me is love." Now that is an expression that comes right out of a Hebrew wedding tradition. His banner over me. It's a picture of a cover symbolizing protection, relationship, love. It's symbolic. For example, you might remember in the story of Ruth and Boaz. When Ruth was this Moabite woman who had come back to Israel with her Hebrew mother-in-law, when their husbands had died, and how Boaz took notice of Ruth as she's cleaning grain in the field.
She's a woman of stature and honor and such and falls in love with her. It all culminates, the story culminates in the moment when Boaz spread his garment over her feet as his promise that he would be her redeemer and take her as his bride. Beautiful story. There's that banner that cover over her, which symbolizes that same idea of the Jewish wedding. It interestingly coincides with a parallel in the New Testament. God redeems us and covers us with a robe of righteousness. The very righteousness of Jesus Christ is given as a gift.
Glorious robe of righteousness. It mentions this in Isaiah 61:10, "I will rejoice greatly in the Lord. My soul will exult in my God, for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation. He has wrapped me with the robe of righteousness." That is a gift of love. When you come to the end of the age and you stand before the great Almighty-- and we all know in our heart of hearts that when it comes to the end and you stand before the great Almighty that you do not want to be standing there in the shame of your sins.
The robe of righteousness is given to anyone who receives the Lord Jesus Christ who is a part of the church, therefore, the bread of Christ receiving the robe of righteousness as a great gift of love. So that on that great and wondrous day when you stand before the great Almighty, you will be standing there wrapped in the robe of righteousness, and the shame of your sin is gone as far as the east is from the west. Amen, amen. Glorious.
Notice the response in that Isaiah 61. Notice the response of being clothed with the garments of salvation wrapped with the robe of righteousness. Notice. In response to this he says, "I will rejoice in this greatly. I will exult in the Lord my God." See in other words when God has done such great things for you it deserves a response. What has God done for you? He says, "God has clothed me with the garments of salvation. God has wrapped me with the robe of righteousness, and I'm very glad and I want to give God glory. I want to exalt his name. He deserves a response."
How much has God done for you? God's done so much. One of the New Testament stories reveals that glorious understanding. One day one of the Pharisees named Simon requested that Jesus dine with him. When he entered the Pharisees' house and reclined at the table says there is a woman in the city who was a sinner. I submit the worst of kinds of sinner. When she heard that Jesus was there reclining at the table of Pharisees house that she brought an alabaster vial of perfume. Then standing behind him at his feet she began to weep.
She wet his feet with her tears and then kept wiping them with the hair of her head and anointing them with perfume. Now when the Pharisee who had invited Jesus saw this he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet he would know who and what sort of woman this is who was touching him and that she is a sinner." Jesus said, "Simon, I have something to say to you." "Say it, Teacher." Luke 7:41 picks up the story. He said, "A moneylender had two debtors. One owed 500 denarii and the other 50. Now when they were unable to pay he graciously forgave them both. Which of them will love him the more?"
Simon answered and said, "I suppose the one whom he forgave more." Jesus said, "You have judged correctly." Continuing in verse 44. "Do you see this woman? I entered your house. You gave no water from my feet. A common courtesy to give water to wash their dirty feet, but she had wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss. Common Hebrew greeting is to honor your guests with a kiss on the cheek, but she since the time I came in has not ceased to kiss my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil.
Again common courtesy. Here's some oil. Please refresh. She has anointed my feet with perfume. For this reason, I say to you that her sins which are many have been forgiven for she loved much. For he who is forgiven little loves little. Then he said to her your sins have been forgiven, your faith has saved you, go in peace." What a great story. She loved much because she had been forgiven much. In other words, when God has done such great things for you it deserves a response of great love. How much has God done for you?
II. He Brought Me to His Banqueting Table
Well, I'll speak for myself. God has forgiven me of much, and I am very, very thankful, and I love him with all my heart. Anybody want to join me in this? Amen, amen. Notice how he gives expression today. He brought me to his banqueting table. This is the banqueting wedding feast, and his banner over me speaks of the wedding. When he brought me to his banqueting table, I think of that marriage supper of the lamb spoken of in the book of Revelation at the end of the age.
Again, in the marriage supper of the lamb, he's using the same picture, the same imagery to represent the depth of love that Christ has toward the church. Revelation 19:7-9, "Let us rejoice and be glad and give glory to him. For the marriage of the Lamb has come and his bride has made herself ready." Then he said to me-- write this down, write. "Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb." He said to me, "These are the true words of God." What a wonderful understanding. Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.
God has given an invitation to you to be part of the marriage supper of the Lamb. It shows it. He's the one pursuing. He's the one who's sending forth, "I invite you." It speaks of his love. Even when you are a sinner, undeserved, you can never have redeemed yourself. I send you an invitation to come to the marriage supper of the Lamb. When you get an invitation, sometimes it'll say, RSVP. It's French actually. Répondez s'il vous plaît. Respond if you please.
When you get an invitation from a king, I submit to you, that deserves a response. If it says répondez s'il vous plaît and he's giving you an invitation to the marriage feast of the Lamb, that's a wonderful invitation, but you got to accept him. Open the door for there is a day coming when he will come for his bride. It's a great picture of the end of the age, the victory that comes at the end of the age, and interestingly, pictured here in the Song of Solomon.
A. He comes for His bride
Notice for example, in chapter 3 starting in verse 6, how the chorus now-- the choir on the stage is declaring, verse 6, "What is this coming up from the wilderness like columns of smoke." In other words, the chorus is saying, "What is this? We look out into the distance of the wilderness and we see columns of smoke. It's really the dust of the great entourage coming. "What is this coming up from the wilderness perfumed with myrrh and frankincense, all scented powders of the merchant.
Ah, behold, it's the traveling coach of Solomon. 60 mighty men surround it. Mighty men of Israel, all of them wielder of the sword, expert in war. Each man has his sword at his side guarding against the terrors of the night." What a beautiful imagery of Jesus coming for his bride, the church, at the end of the age. By the way, it's a fantastic study because the Jewish wedding has prophetic elements of the latter days and the return of Jesus Christ. For example, after the proposal and engagement in a Jewish wedding, the bridegroom would leave and then go and prepare a house.
He would go and leave and build a house on his property of the Father. There he would go and prepare a future for them and build a house. He could not return until the house was finished, built to the satisfaction of the Father. Then when the house is built, the Father would say to his son, "Go and receive your bride." Now, this is interestingly spoken of in John 14:1-3, "Do not let your heart be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me, for I go to prepare a place for you. If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, I will receive you to myself that where I am you may be also."
Beautiful picture. When the Father of the bridegroom was satisfied that the house was well-built, he would send his son to receive his bride. The groom's attendance would go before him shouting, "Behold the bridegroom cometh, come out to meet him." That's in the story too. That's in Song of Solomon 3:11, where the choir, chorus shouts out, "Go forth, O daughters of Zion, and behold, look upon King Solomon with his crown on the day of his wedding, on the day of his gladness of heart."
It's a beautiful expression. Jesus uses that marriage illustration when he prophetically speaks to the last days in Matthew 24 and 25. It's all through the Bible. He uses that expression when he says, "No man knows the day or the hour." This is a Jewish understanding. The Father determines the day, the hour in which the son will go to receive his bride. He uses that, but then he says, "Therefore watch--" and he gives in Matthew 25, this illustration.
B. Watch and be ready
"Watch, be on the alert, be ready." Interestingly, in the Jewish wedding tradition again, after the proposal, after the engagement, that the groom would give a gift as a pledge, a seal. A seal of their relationship while he is gone, and that seal is to say, "I will return, but put this seal upon your heart and long for me. I will return to receive you." It's in the book of Song of Solomon. Would you, for example, turn to Song of Solomon 8:6-7, where Solomon, the husband here says, "Put me as a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm.
For love is as strong as death. Jealousy is as severe a shield. Guard your heart. It's flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the Lord. Many waters cannot quench love." This is famous here. "Many waters cannot quench love. Rivers cannot overflow it. If a man were to give all the riches of his house for love, he would be despised." You can't buy love, interestingly, but that seal over your heart, the Scripture says that the Holy Spirit is a seal over your heart, a gift, a pledge to reside there in your soul awaiting for the day that God will return to receive his bride.
"Watch, he said, therefore, and be ready for you do not know the day that your Lord will come." How do you watch? Well, you watch for the signs of the times. Jesus gave many of the signs of the times in Matthew 24 to watch. I submit to you that we are seeing today what Jesus described as the beginning of birth pangs. In other words, any woman who's had a child will know that the birth pangs grow greater in intensity and closer together as a time draws near.
In the same way, Jesus expressed, "Watch for the signs of the time. These will be like a woman in childbirth. They will grow greater in intensity and closer together as the time draws near." I say we are living in those days and we have to watch very carefully at what's happening in the world today. There are storm clouds on the horizon that I submit that are very near. We are seeing the world changing before our eyes. Be on the alert. Watch. Then he says, "And be ready."
God gave the Holy Spirit that you would be ready by drawing near to God by that Holy Spirit indwelling in your soul, that you would know the depth of the greatness of his love and know the glory that abounds in the nearness of God, that your soul would be right with God. This is an urgent matter. There's no time to waste. The time draws near. The days are changing before our eyes.
I gave you the spirit that while you're waiting, you will know how much I love you. That you would have the glory of God now abounding and abiding in your soul. That you would have joy indescribable, peace that passes understanding. Now, your soul is made right with God now, this is how to stand strong and firm in the days that are coming. Let's pray.
Lord, we are so thankful to you. The expression of this love, you loved us so much that Christ died for us when we were still sinners. That you are the one who pursues. You are the one who knocks on the door and calls our name. That if we would open the door, you would enter in. There would be a relationship. Church how many would say to the Lord today, I want to know the depth of your love for me God. I want to give to you in response to all that you've done for me, I want to give you my love, I'm all in.
I want to give expression to that love. You've won me. You've proven yourself to me. All that you've done for me, it's amazing. I'm all in, God, I honor you as I declare it. Church how many would say that. Would you just raise your hand as a way of declaring to God, I want to know the depths of God's love. I want to just declare to God how much I love you in response of all that you've done. It's amazing. We honor you, we praise you, and lift up your holy name in Jesus' name, and everyone said amen. Can we give God praise? Amen, amen. [applause] Amen, amen. Church we're going to worship.